Disrespectful parents

Sunday May 18, 2008
Disrespectful parents
I FULLY agree with
Kindergarten Teacher (StarEducation May 11) on the lack of respect and attitude some parents display towards teachers.

A few days ago, I took some food and a cake to celebrate my son's birthday at his kindergarten.

While trying to set up the party, I observed some six-year-olds behaving in a manner that shocked and upset me.

They were rude and used foul language.

The teacher reprimanded them, but they weren’t bothered.

Such behaviour was shocking and while I have no doubt that the teacher had previously informed the parents of the “colourful' language used in class, the children continued to do so.

In a situation like this, the onus is on the parents to refrain from using such language at all times, while at the same time ensuring their children don't.

Perhaps it is parents who need a ticking off for being in denial abouttheir children's bad language and behaviour.

I have heard of parents engaging in senseless quarrels with teachers, when in fact, it is they who should bear the onus of inculcating good values in their children.

Many parents think their children are angels but many children defy teachers and school authorities.

The reasons for such behaviour may vary, but it up to the parents concerned to recognise these signs and bring about positive changes in their children, instead of ignoring these worrying traits.

If unchecked for a prolonged period, these children pick up more bad habits in primary and secondary schools, and may end up becoming gangsters and hooligans in their adult life.

Well, at least, the police force is assured of a steady stream of criminals to keep them busy for a long time!

After all , with parents who turn a blind eye, and who challenge teachers whenever their children are reprimanded, there isn't much teachers can do.

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